Easy to control

Compliments make you easy to control, while someone is inflating your head, you feel good, you can't notice their motives.  Your enemies will lie to you, tell you everything is fine.. you look ok, while they secretly laugh behind your back and smile in your face.  Your enemy will see your flaw and not poke or pull on it, stick their finger in it...your friend stick their finger in your wound and say are you ok.. your friend will tell you there's something on your face and even wipe it off cause they care.. your enemy will let you walk around with food on your face, tell you you look great, smile in your face and laugh behind your back.  Listen closely to your friends, get close and you'll discover who's who.  That's why people say keep your friends close and your enemies closer, that way you know who they are!